Bordeline Personality Disorder

I am doing this blog in the hopes of helping people with "BPD" and to help family and friends and those who do not have BPD to perhaps understand us better. Also to learn from others at the same time. I am 36 years old and I was diagnosed with BPD about 2 years ago. I am fortunate enough to be in a fantastic treatment center for 2 years and i know that depending on where people live, many places do not have treatment at all. I will be sharing VERY PERSONAL information because i think it is important people understand and in the hopes that my story can help someone who has felt the same or went through similar experiences, hopefully they can relate. I would like to share experiences and things I have learned in therapy and hear people's stories and experiences. Please do not self diagnose yourself if you find you have many of the symptoms of Borderline personality disorder. I also am not a doctor or therapist so everything I post is from my own experiences and what I have learned so far about BPD. Everyone is welcome to share their stories, offer tips and such but if anyone is disrespectful I will remove your posts. I hope this will be a way to inform and help people including myself. Thank you

Thursday 6 October 2011

An instant relaxation exercise

Art times we find ourselves overexcited, angry, or just needing to calm down. This simple exercise may be a valuable tool for reducing excessive arousal quickly and effectively during upsetting moments, in effect, a quick way to "calm down" in the face of a stressful situation. The basic mechanism for stress reduction in this exercise involves deep breathing. The procedure is as follows: STEP 1: Assume a comfortable position. Rest your left hand (palm down) on the top of your navel. Now place your right hand so it sits comfortably on your left. You eyes should rem ain open. STEP 2:Imagine a hollow bottle, or pouch, lying internally beneath the point at which your hands are resting. Begin to INHALE, imagine the air is entering through your nose and descending to fill that internal pouch. Your hands will rise as you fill the pouch with air. As you continue to inhale, imagine the pouch being filled to the top. Your rib cage and upper chest will continue the wave-like rise that was begun at your navel. The total lenght of your inhalation should be 3 seconds for the first week or so, then lenghten to 4 or 5 seconds as you progress in skill development. STEP 3:Slowely begin to exhale-to empty the pouch. As you do, repeat to yourself this phrase, "My body is calm". As you exhale, you will feel your raised abdomen and chest recede Repeat this exerise two times in successsion. Then continue to breathe normally for 5-10 successive breath cycles, but be sure to emphasize the expiration of each breath cycle to the point of relaxation. Then you may repeat the entire process again-2 deep breaths followed by 5-10 normal breaths during which you concentrate on releasing any stored tension on the expiration. Should you begin to feel light-headed or should experience any discomfort, stop at that point. You may wish to shorten the lenght of inhalation to avoid light-headedness. After about one week of practicing, omit step 1, start with step 2. If you have any health concerns, consult your physician prior to using this exercise. NEVER USE THIS EXERCISE WHILE DRIVING.

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